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‘Bad boys, bad boys, whatcha gonna do? Whatcha gonna do when they come for you?’ Oh the notorious bad boy. What female hasn’t had some fixation on a bad boy at one time in her life? I know I’ve had my share of twisted fantasies regarding the not so choir boy personas.
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Some of the classic bad boy images which flood my mind are the rocker, the tattooed covered biker, the rebellious preacher’s son, and the womanizing jock. Oh yeah, those boys definitely knew how to raise the hair on the back of my mom’s neck to high heavens. But I so loved them, probably more to the fact that they did ruffle her feathers.
The strong sexual pull these men tend to have over women can be nerve wracking on females' emotions not to mention their libidos. Yet, I believe the most appealing aspect about these naughty guys is that females have a deep desire to be the ‘special someone’ to tame the demon and have him only unleashed on her and her alone. Isn’t that why so many romance novels are so intriguing?
Susan Johnson’s book ‘Golden Paradise’ is a classic example of such a bad boy. The hero is an egotistical alpha male who believes he can continue his womanizing ways even after seducing the heroine. He continually resists his growing admiration and love for her and it takes a series of dangerous and life threatening situations which forces him to face his fears of succumbing to truly giving himself to one woman. And oh boy, when he finally loves her completely, the intensity of his emotions sparks their relationship into a deep meaningful one.
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I admit that the change of heart does not always happen with all bad boys. It can happen though. It doesn’t necessarily happen overnight but for the females who long to tame the wild beasts from others, there is hope. Yet, isn’t half the fun of taming the beast includes riding the wild stud? Yes, my sentiments exactly.
So, who is a favorite wild man you’d like to tame …or not?